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Domestic Violence
Domestic Violence is a widespread problem here in the United States and abroad. Domestic Violence, or abuse between
intimate partners, can take many forms. It may include verbal and/or emotional abuse, denial of access to resources
and money, restraint of normal activities or freedom, sexual coercion or assault, threats to kill or harm, and
physical intimidation or attacks. The factors most closely related to spousal abuse are youth of both the offender
and the victim, low income, growing up in a violent family, alcohol or substance abuse, unemployment, sexual difficulties,
and low job satisfaction. Moreover, social and cultural influences also contribute to domestic violence.
I work with both the victims of domestic violence, as well as the perpetrators. I am particularly sensitive to the plight of the victim, as many factors, including economic, interpersonal, cultural, and social, prevent them from leaving the violent relationship. First and foremost, I do everything in my power to ensure that victims are kept safe. For example, I will encourage them to go to specific shelters where they may receive legal assistance, substance abuse rehabilitation, and additional treatment and advocacy services. After victims are safe and sound, I focus my attention on strengthening their sense of self, and raising their self-esteem.
I encourage perpetrators of domestic violence to take accountability for their actions. I also teach offenders
various anger management techniques. Male batterers are educated about the role of patriarchy in domestic violence.
Moreover, they are encouraged to see that men’s attitudes and behavior about power and control lead to the abuse
of women as well.
Finally, men are encouraged to examine their attitudes about what it means to be a man.
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